tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-83037091359941734262024-02-20T18:44:00.210+08:00Rise CakoViewing From The Other Siderise cakohttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09962650303679675385noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8303709135994173426.post-6513051480399025752011-06-06T22:30:00.000+08:002011-06-06T22:30:24.287+08:00Hatred Neutral Like & LoveWhat with it? Lets go through one by one.<br />
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<a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hatred"><b>Hatred</b></a> (or <b>hate</b>) is a deep and emotional extreme dislike, directed against a certain object or class of objects.<br />
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<b>Neutral</b> feeling is a feeling in between hatred and like/love. Neither hatred nor like/love include in this feel.<br />
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<a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Like"><b>Like</b></a> generally as a verb like refers to a fondness for something or someone. Like can be used to express a feeling of attraction between two people, weaker than love and distinct from it in important ways. It does not necessarily imply a romantic attraction.<br />
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<a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Love"><b>Love</b></a> is an emotion of strong affection and personal attachment. Yes, love always go the other way unexpected. May be you should read <a href="http://frogprincesz.blogspot.com/2011/05/love-checklists.html">Love checklists</a> by <a href="http://frogprincesz.blogspot.com/">Frog Princesz.</a> It really amaze me.<br />
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Okay, back on track. What I really want to talk here is about what we do in daily life. Okay, simple question, do you love durian? Some say "euwwww smelly", some say "its ok but I don't really eat it", some say "oh sure" and some say "I want more!!". Haha.. May be this is not really a good example. But what I mean is once we saying something negative on it, we actually already did make that thing much more difficult, less exciting, tiresome, and bu bu bu bu~ ("bu" in Mandarin is a word that combine with other word that will bring negative or NO to the word if not mistaken. Please feel easy to tell me if I am wrong.)<br />
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Really, hatred will drag other negative thing together with it to us. But how about like and love? I like girls but I love a girl. I like money but I love making money. I am not pro about "love" one someone so I won't touch regarding it deeply right here.<br />
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Employer: Do you like this job? <br />
Mr. A: Yes. <br />
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Employer: Do you love this job? <br />
Mr. B: Yes.<br />
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No guarantee, but who do you think will do the best? Mr. A or Mr. B? Why? When it about love, a person won't give up and definitely struggle and keep trying to achieve his target. Never give up.<br />
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But how about a person that desperately have to work to support his family? Before this he hate his job, he will tired whole day. Yet, he need to keep work and work. But if he at least have neutral feeling on his job, will he feel extreme tired like before?<br />
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A song thats played on hallmark channel its goes like this:<br />
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<i>hey baby don't forget<br />
live a life with no regrets<br />
you know you got to love this life<br />
love your life<br />
how can you be blue<br />
when the world awaits for you<br />
lovin your life<br />
life life life is beautiful<br />
love your life<span class="yshortcuts cs4-visible" id="lw_1307369875_0"></span></i><br />
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Nice isn't it? :-)<br />
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I think this is end of my thought for now. Before that, let inspired by this quote:<br />
<blockquote><i><b>" Cherish Yesterday-Live Today-Dream Tomorrow "</b></i></blockquote>rise cakohttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09962650303679675385noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8303709135994173426.post-85938235364042124202011-06-04T13:55:00.001+08:002011-06-04T19:01:40.396+08:00Promise or Desire?<a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Desire_%28emotion%29"><b><br />
Desire</b></a> is a sense of longing for a person or object or hoping for an outcome. I ask myself, what are our desire in this life? Own sport car? Married with hot chick? Big house? Become a successful person? What is success?<br />
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But how about,<br />
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<a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Promise"><b>Promise</b></a> is a commitment by someone to do or not do something. Once again I ask myself, how many promises that we have <span class="short_text" id="result_box" lang="en"><span class="hps" title="Click for alternate translations">fulfilled? If we stop half-way how far have we done/try?<br />
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Basically it's like desire is willing with hope and promise is more like trying with effort. Does it enough to have just "WILL" with "HOPE" and "TRY" with "EFFORT"?<br />
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<b><a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Will_%28philosophy%29">Will</a></b> </span></span> refers to the desire of an individual, and the acts done when such decisions are put into effect. The question here, how strong is our will? Strong enough to shake the world? Strong enough until it can break all doubt? Or easily stop by an obstacle?<br />
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<a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hope"><b>Hope</b></a> is the belief in a positive outcome related to events and circumstances in one's life. Does hope help us? Are we depending one hope? Have we try to put some effort to make it come true?<br />
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<a href="http://dictionary.reference.com/browse/try"><b>Try</b></a> <span id="hotword"><span id="hotword" name="hotword" style="background-color: transparent; cursor: default;">is an</span> <span id="hotword" name="hotword" style="background-color: transparent; cursor: default;">attempt</span> <span id="hotword" name="hotword" style="background-color: transparent; cursor: default;">to</span> <span id="hotword" name="hotword" style="background-color: transparent; cursor: default;">do</span> <span id="hotword" name="hotword" style="background-color: transparent; cursor: default;">or</span> <span id="hotword" name="hotword" style="background-color: transparent; cursor: default;">accomplish something. Is it only stuck at just "attempt" stage or until it "accomplish"? Personally, how do you define "try"? "Attempt" or "Accomplish"? That bring big different.<br />
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<a href="http://en.wiktionary.org/wiki/effort#Middle_French"><b>Effort</b></a>. The etymology </span></span>from <span class="etyl">Middle French</span> <span class="mention-Latn" lang="frm"><a href="http://en.wiktionary.org/wiki/effort#Middle_French" title="effort">effort</a></span>, from <span class="etyl">Old French</span> <span class="mention-Latn" lang="fro">esfort</span>, deverbal noun from <span class="mention-Latn" lang="fro">esforcier</span> <span class="mention-gloss-paren">(</span><span class="mention-gloss-double-quote">“</span>to force, exert<span class="mention-gloss-double-quote">”</span><span class="mention-gloss-paren">)</span>, from <span class="etyl">Vulgar Latin</span> *<i>exfortiare</i>, from <span class="etyl">Latin</span> <span class="mention-Latn" lang="la">ex</span> + <span class="mention-Latn" lang="la">fortis</span> <span class="mention-gloss-paren">(</span><span class="mention-gloss-double-quote">“</span>strong<span class="mention-gloss-double-quote">”</span><span class="mention-gloss-paren">)</span>. And the synonym is <a href="http://en.wiktionary.org/wiki/struggle#Noun">struggle</a>.<span id="hotword"><span id="hotword" name="hotword" style="background-color: transparent; cursor: default;"> "Strong" huh!?<br />
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What ever it is, I always </span></span><span class="short_text" id="result_box" lang="en"><span class="hps" title="Click for alternate translations">adherence to this principles:<br />
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</span></span><b><i>"Expect the worst, do the best."</i></b><br />
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This things confuse me until I read a quote in a book named "Awaken the Giant Within" by <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Tony_Robbins">Tony Robbins</a>.<br />
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<b>"Know that it is your decisions, and not your conditions, that determine your destiny."</b></i><br />
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"Promise or Desire"? Definitely NO! It is "Promise <b>AND</b> Desire"<br />
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I once almost give up on something. Then promise to myself to "disappear" in certain period. It is complicated. Unexplainable. But that how it goes. I got desire on it, I got promise on myself. But I choose promise more than desire at that time.<br />
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But now I know I should give up although it is almost impossible and waiting for miracle for my wish come true. Is it? No! I need both Desire and Promise! I am willing to continue although it is pain and hopeless. And the worst case, I might lose it! Am I stupid? What ever!! Why do I need to care about what others think about me? Am I crazy? Yes! Hahahaha!! I am crazy waiting and trying to achieve it every seconds. I put all my efforts on it. Will I succeed? Come on tell me, do you want to feel the regret not put some "Promise and Desire" by considering the current conditions OR have a chance of success that might cause you happy and new experience if you fail??<br />
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I have decide although I am not perfect and still have tonnes of weaknesses inside me, I am going to proceed what ever it takes even I know I am near to failure. This is my destiny.<br />
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<b>-THE END-</b><br />
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